Alabi Opeyemi Theophilus
5 min readMar 19, 2021

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7 NUGGETS OF WISDOM: PREREQUISITES FOR YOUR BUILD UP TO SUCCESS.

Have you ever imagined a world where no effort is required in your build up to success?

As in, you just wake up one morning, and boom, you’re successful. You know just like magic(lol). Sounds good, right? I’ve imagined it couple of times(laughs).

Fun fact, however, remains that all you just imagined is a fantasy. No world is programmed to run like that. (chuckles)Pardon me for bursting your bubbles. I know fantasies can be mesmerizing.

Just like the construction of Rome wasn’t a day’s task, building up success is no easy feat. As a matter of fact, accomplishing such a feat can be very daunting and overwhelming.

Reality of life remains that every man wants a success story, but success story is not for every man. Lots of people are around just to help others build up their success. It’s only for the few individuals that have the recipe needed to make a success story.

Yes! I meant recipe. Just like cooking a tasty meal requires certain recipe, build up to success has an indispensable recipe as well. Can you keep a secret? I’m willing to disclose the requisite recipe for building up success, if only, you promise to keep it a secret(titters).

1. RESET YOUR MINDSET AND GROW YOUR MENTALITY.

In all honesty, this particular content was inspired by this nugget of wisdom.

I figured recently that most individuals have their mindset and mentality fixed as regards the level of their capacities and capabilities.

A fixed mindset and mentality are just as injurious to the build up of success as weed is to a farmer. They restrain the success scope of an individual.

Brilliant minds in recent times, have referred the mindset to be the new psychology of success. Your mindset is core to your success story. Your mindset has the power to directly influence your abilities- which in turn, influences your endeavour to succeed positively or negatively.

Have you ever seen certain individuals accomplish feats you can’t seem to comprehend, and you wondered how they’ve managed to execute such feats?

Well, individuals with a growing mindset and mentality have better tendency of fulfilling their full potentials than individuals with a fixed mindset and mentality.

I strongly recommend that you consult the lifechanging book, Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol S. Dweck for better understanding of the relevance of your mindset and mentality towards achieving success.

Carol gave wonderful insights into the growth of the mindset as well as, the mentality.

As a bottom-line, it’s imperative to prepare your mentality for your reality, so when the reality comes, it meets you mentally prepared.

2. FILTER THE COMPANIES AROUND YOU- DISCARD THE TARES- KEEP THE WHEATS.

It’s imperative to filter the companies you keep, so you can identify and isolate the bad ones from the good ones.

I figured lately that most of the acquaintances individuals keep in recent times are detrimental to the health of their minds and as well, to their mental health and might be injurious towards their build up to success.

Bad company, they say corrupts good manners. The behavior of the company you keep directly or indirectly influences yours, which in turn affects your mindset and mentality, and as the end result, can influence your build up to success positively or negatively.

It’s advisable you isolate yourself from the tares around you and associate with the wheats.

Detach yourself from the company of people with a fixed-mindset. Embrace the company of people with a growth- mindset, so you can grow together as like minds.

It’s better to be the most stupid amidst brilliant minds than to be the smartest amongst simpletons.

Growth is an everyday phenomenon, and it’s easier in the company of mentally rich people because you nudge each other in your build up to success.

Bottom-line, even while in company of brilliant minds, never forget to ride your own waves and never underrate your ability.

3. REMEMBER! THE MENTOR- FACTOR WORKS WONDERS.

As a growing individual, never cast aside the mentor- factor. A mentor is essential in your build up to success. Your mentor ensures your self-consciousness.

No man rises alone. You need a mentor to guide your path and lighten your way on your road to success. Your mentor has been there before you, he knows better than you.

Remember! Your mentor can’t be just a random individual. He must be an individual you look up to and has a fine personality.

4. WIDEN YOUR SCOPE: ADD MORE VALUES TO YOURSELF.

There are various wellsprings of knowledge and value out there. Source for and read from lifechanging materials like inspiring books, motivational quotes and the likes.

Learn about businesses, trades and investments. Don’t forget that the illiterate of the 21st century is not the uneducated individual, but the one that doesn’t know something about everything.

Technology has made research easier. Research things you don’t know about. ignorance.

You can learn to trade forex, buy stocks and shares, invest in cryptocurrency. You can learn about graphics designing, web designing, network marketing and other online businesses, as well as, offline businesses.

The more the values you add to yourself, the more your personal gains and benefits.

5. PROCASTINATION IS YOUR ENEMY IN YOUR BUILD UP TO SUCCESS: JAIL IT.

Procrastination is the act of postponing, putting off or delaying an action; to wait until later; especially out of habitual carelessness or laziness.

You’ll be like, “I’ll do it tomorrow, I’m too tired today”. (smiles)The truth is that there is tendency that you’ll delay taking action again when tomorrow comes. Stop delaying!!! Start doing!!!

Procrastination can extinguish the burning flames of your success, if its tentacles are not cut and locked up deep in a bottomless pit.

Procrastination can prevent your success story from realization within the set time frame. Yes! It’s very possible. Procrastination has an unfathomable power.

Stop delaying your success. Battle, defeat and imprison procrastination now!!!

6. FINANCIAL INDEPENDECE IS VITAL: ACHIEVE IT

I know achieving financial independence can prove to be very challenging. It’s however imperative that you achieve it.

You need unrestricted access to financial resources for your build up to success. Financial dependency means financial slavery and it’s imperative to seek freedom.

7. IF CHANCED, TRAVEL AROUND AND GATHER EXPERIENCE.

Steal this from successful men around you. Travel far and wide to gather experience and see how things are done on the other sides of the world.

A wise young man once said: “Travel while you still have the time, your money will come back to you, but your time will never do”.

Experience, they say, is the biggest teacher. Knowledge acquired through experience tends to serve you more than the ones learnt will.

Conclusion

Build up to success, though challenging, can be made an easy feat, with adherence to these 7 nuggets of wisdom. With adherence to 7 nuggets of wisdom, I know a moment will come in time, when you’ll look back to this day and you’ll say,” I did it”.

When you finally achieve success, remember to build others as well. You’ll never fall by rising others. Moreover, those you build will also be a part of your success story. I believe you’ll give a beautiful success story.

7 nuggets of wisdom was inspired by the need enlighten individuals who have a fixed- mindset that they can’t go past a limit which they have set for themselves, and also to guide their paths to greater heights.

Remember this is our little secret(smiles).

Remember! Be a goal getter! Your accomplishments will amaze you.

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Alabi Opeyemi Theophilus

I am the horpehtimi. I'm about guiding the paths of striving individuals with alluring contents towards achieving financial independence and help build success.